Long Overdue Update

It's been a long time since I've posted on here....thought I'd update everyone on what's going on.

We are now a four-person family!!! Sydney Grace Yates was born to us October 13, 2009 and is now almost 5 months old.

Kylie also started Kindergarten in the fall of 2009, so LOTS of changes!

This "new" lifestyle put on hold my weight loss. I have actually gained 30 lbs of the 60 that I had lost.

Still 30 lbs down overall, but very frustrating for me. Jeannie and I are back on track this week and are doing our best to get back to a healthy lifestyle.

I will be finishing my Master of Arts in Religion with a Pastoral Counseling concentration in May. I have one class left and then I'm DONE!!! :O) WOOT!

That's a basic update for now. Hope all is going well with those that follow my blog! Love you all!!!

Parachute

I wanted to share a story from a book called, Hell’s Best Kept Secret, by Ray Comfort. Read and consider:

        A man was sitting on an airplane. Unknown to the passengers, a terrorist hijacks the plane and it is about to crash. Halfway into the trip while high up in the sky, the flight attendant walks over to the man with a parachute in her hand. She asks him to put it on immediately. “Why should I put the parachute on?” asks the man.

        “Because it will help make your trip more enjoyable,” the flight attendant replies. “Plus, others are putting it on and you don’t want to be one of the only people that doesn’t have one on. Also, you never know what might happen during the flight, and if the plane goes down, it will come in handy.”
        
        So there the man sits trying to find a comfortable position in his seat, all the while wearing this parachute strapped tightly to his back. He sees other passengers who are not wearing their parachutes. They seem to be enjoying the flight, easily finding comfortable positions in their seats, even taking naps, while the man feels foolish with his on. In fact, some people sitting around him begin to point and giggle, and the woman sitting directly to his right frowns and firmly pushes his parachute off her side of the seat. Other passengers seem to only trust the parachutes they can construct and the gentleman across the aisle is frantically trying to tape together little drink napkins to create his own.

        The man begins to think to himself, “The flight attendant lied to me. Not only am I not enjoying this, but there are plenty of people who are not wearing parachutes and they seem to be having a great time. I am sitting here looking like a fool. What are the chances of the flight going down anyway..?”

Picture another scenario:

        The same man is on the same plane. The same flight attendant walks over to his seat and offers him a parachute. This time, however, when he asks the attendant why he should put it on, her answer is very different. “Our flight has just been hijacked by a terrorist. We are about to crash!!!” At that moment the parachute becomes a welcomed piece of equipment. Suddenly, not only does the man not care that the parachute is uncomfortable, he cares even less about how foolish he looks wearing it. He wonders why other passengers are continuing to refuse parachutes, and he frantically tries to convince them to strap theirs on. The comfort of the passenger takes a back seat to the life and death situation on the plane.

Here’s the explanation of the parable...

Satan is the terrorist. The flight attendant is one who offers the Gospel to a lost person. The passenger is you, the reader. The parachute is...Jesus Christ.

What does this story challenge you to do? What is God saying to you? To me? Are we all about our comfort or all about Jesus?

Stop...and consider...

Weight Loss Update

Well...another update. I’m down to 308.4 lbs today. :) It’s still coming off!

I’m in a competition at our health club for overall weight loss and body composition. I’m meeting with a trainer two days a week and I’m getting my butt kicked! In a good way...;)

Thanks for the continued prayers!

Weight Loss Update...

Well, I had to post again!

I’m now down to 318.8 lbs. today!!! That’s 30 lbs. on Bodybugg and 38 lbs. from my heaviest weight!

I’m getting to the point that I need some new clothes...however, I can still wear the one’s I’ve got for now and I will be getting smaller. So...I’m going to wait for maybe 10-15 more lbs.

:)

New Yates' Family Website

I really hope to create a website for our family over the coming weeks. I'm a rabid Mac user now, so I'm going to be using iWeb. :) First time doing that, but it should be an experience. I'll be posting pictures to our Flickr page in the near future, but you can keep up with a lot of what we're doing at www.412youth.com. Since youth ministry is my life...that will fill you in. Pictures available as well!!!

Weight Loss Update

I just HAD to post this!!!

I’ve been using the Bodybugg system (the armbands that you see on The Biggest Loser). This is a system that monitors your actual calorie burn each day. My goal is to eat 1000 calories less than I consume each day which will equal a minimum of a two pound weight loss for that week.

I began this process the second week of January and I weighed 348 lbs after Christmas. At my heaviest, I weighed 356 during the summer of 2008.

I weighed this morning and I am at....326.0 lbs! That’s a loss of 22 lbs since I began this program and 30 lbs from my heaviest! Needless to say, I’m very excited.

My next goal is to get under 300 lbs to 299. I’m running six days a week and weight lifting three days a week. I also officiate basketball, so that gets me even more active!

My first goal was to be able to play Wii Fit with my girls, but I had to be under 330...first goal met!

I would just like to ask that you continue to pray for my weight loss. I’m on a roll, but life can throw curve balls at us and I’m an emotional eater. I just want to keep this life change. :)

Thanks so much and THANK GOD for HIS strength as I continue this journey in my life!!!!

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Thank You, President Bush

I find myself at a loss for words today. We have a new president. This is a time to see what will happen. I must admit, I am a republican and I did not vote for President Obama. However, he is my president and I will support him as God’s Word will allow me to. I will pray that God will direct him in his leadership of this country.

I just want to write a thank you to President Bush. He has been much aligned and slandered...however I believe that history will prove that he was one of the best presidents that America has ever seen. I cannot say that I agreed with everything he did while he was president, but I find myself sad that he is no longer our Commander-in-Chief. I believe that he always did what he thought was right for America, no matter what the personal or political cost of those decisions. That’s the test of a true leader.

Thank you, President George W. Bush for believing in America and for serving her well. Enjoy your rest. I’m sure you need it. :) God bless you and your family!!!

Matthew 5:17-20

A Prayer to God

Heavenly Father,

I am so amazed by the love that you have shown me. As we begin each year, it’s an easy time to think back on the year that has been and the year that will be. Each year, I feel like I need to do more for You, to be more for You, to just be more like You. While all of those things are worthwhile desires and pursuits, what I really need to do is just seek YOU. As I seek you with ALL that I have (my heart, soul, mind and strength) all of the above pursuits will be accomplished by YOU in me. It’s not about me accomplishing anything...it’s about YOU accomplishing everything in me and through me.

I try to take responsibility for so many things in my life that, really, aren’t my responsibility. Not that I do not strive to become less and You become more in my life like John the Baptist declared. It’s just that I need YOU in my life. I don’t need to seek anything/anyone else. As I seek you, I will change. That’s the renewing of the mind...seeking You with all I have.

Thank you so very much for Your salvation. Thank you for Jesus. Thank you for paying the debt that I could never pay. I don’t deserve your love, yet you give it freely and abundantly. You are my Adonai (Master), El Shaddai (the one who provides) and Jehovah-Maccaddeschem (the LORD my sanctifier)!!! You are Immanuel (God with us).

I love you, Jesus. Take all I have. Help me to live with all I am for all that YOU are.

Man...what a summer so far...

It's been awhile since I've posted...but life is going okay. Summer has been a bit anti-climactic this time around as the youth ministry does not have a "big" trip planned this break. So...this gives me time to rest after a HUGE youth room project. We just got back from Boyne Mountain with Jeannie's parents...we had a great time. I didn't golf all that well, but it was FUN! :)

Life is...interesting right now. Each time Jeannie's parents leave to go back home, or each time we leave them...it gets harder. As Kylie gets older...it gets harder. We are 100% convinced that Michigan is where God wants us...we just get "homesick" from time to time. It's easy to forget that we are transplants in MI and don't have any family around whatsoever.

God is speaking to me right now. He desires more of me. I desire more of Him. I want my life to continually be looking like Him. I am apalled at what I see in my life sometimes. The words to this song really describe where I'm at right now:

"The Only Thing"
Ronnie Freeman

I heard someone say the other day
They'd seen in me true love displayed
Blessed by something I had done for them
No sooner had they said these words
I found myself somehow disturbed
Uneasy as I took their compliment
Cause I know the heart inside this man
I know the truth of who I am...

The only thing that's good in me is Jesus
The only thing that's good in me is Jesus
I know me well enough to know
No matter what this life may show
The only thing that's good in me is Jesus

If you could walk the hallways of my heart
And see things as they really are
I wonder if you might be surprised
Seeing faded walls of pride and fear
Rooms I've filled with faithless tears
And corners where I've stood in compromise
But you'd see the work His grace has done
You'd know just how far I've come

In a thousand years
When the dust of this world clears
And I look back on my life
And see in perfect light

The only thing that's good in me is Jesus
The only thing that's good in me is Jesus
I know me well enough to know
No matter what this life may show
The only thing that's good in me is Jesus

I am nothing...Christ is everything. I guess I find myself a bit depressed. I feel like I'm in a state of transition. I don't know what kind of transition, however. I'm turning 30 next month...it's an interesting thing for me. Most people just try to explain it away...saying that I'm still young. I still am young, there's no disputing that. I guess it's just a time of introspection for me right now. Taking stock of my life and relationship with Christ, if you will.

Well...that's me for now. I hope to be posting some stuff I'm learning in school this Fall...I hope I can get back to classes.

God bless, have a great day and thanks for reading!

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The Lost Tomb of Jesus, Or Is It???

This paper was also written for my Apologetics this summer. This paper looks at the recent Discovery Channel "documentary" on the Talpiot Tomb, otherwise known as "The Lost Tomb of Jesus." You can access this document at: http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=d36dmsw_5dpg5xd. Read it for more information/study!

The Resurrection, Evangelism and Religious Tolerance

I recently wrote an application paper for my Apologetics class. This paper can be viewed at: http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=d36dmsw_4fgtp2r. Let me know what you think...and enjoy!

Heavy Heart...Need Prayer...

I write today with a heavy heart. We found out that Josh & Tim Schrauger (Tim is on the left, Josh on the right) were killed in a tragic car accident on Saturday, September 29, 2007. Tim was a very active member of our youth group at 412 Youth and had just been accepted into our Student Leadership Program. I knew Josh a little, but not as much as I knew Tim. To complicate matters, the family has been through the "ringer" in the past year. One of the family's older sons, David, serves our country in the military and was deployed in Iraq. His humvee was hit by an IED and he was gravely injured while the rest of his comrades were killed. He has been going through numerous surgeries in a Texas military hospital and he is recovering...but not out of the woods yet. Now, their family has lost their two youngest children.

I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that both of these young men met their Jesus on Saturday. In fact, I would not be surprised if they have already organized a massive heavenly game of paintball! :) I had the priviledge of hearing Tim's testimony last Sunday as we had student leadership interviews. His biggest concern about becoming a student leader was that he would lead students TOWARD Jesus, not away from Him. He wanted his fellow students to see that a relationship with His Lord is so awesome and can be exciting! It was an honor knowing and encouraging Tim as his youth pastor. This is something that I prayed would never happen in my ministry to students. However, I KNOW that God WILL BE GLORIFIED in and through this. Josh & Tim impacted many lives with their love for Jesus through the way they lived...and now Jesus has an opportunity to impact many through them in their death.

The funeral is going to be at Lake Orion High School on Thursday, October 4 at 4:30 PM. I will be eulogizing Tim as part of the service. Please pray that God would give me and the other two pastors wisdom about what to say and how to be the most effective for Christ and for the family. Pray that God will be glorified. Pray that the family will be comforted. Pray for the students in our youth ministry and many others that knew and loved Josh & Tim. It is a sad day for us...but an awesome time for Josh & Tim. They are with the One they loved the most. They are with their Best Friend. They are with their Jesus...I have to admit...I'm a little jealous. ;)

Discipling Worshippers of Jesus...

The Great Commission is all about "making disciples" of the nations. It is the point of the entire commission. Jesus then tells the Apostles (and us) how to go about making disciples: baptize them and teach them to obey everything that Jesus had commanded them. The process of becoming a disciple is the same as being a disciple: being baptized indicates a desire to be publicly identified with the Risen Jesus as the individual's Lord and Savior, while obedience is the "spiritual act of worship" in Romans 12:1. When a person is a disciple of someone (whether Jesus or not), they are one that learns from the teacher; they become an imitator of their teacher (DISCIPLE
mathetes NT:3101, from Vine's Expository Dictionary of Biblical Words, Copyright © 1985, Thomas Nelson Publishers.)

The very definition of the word "worship" (proskuneo in the Greek) calls for an act of reverence or homage to God OR to man. I like to define worship as "worth-ship", or what we decide is most important in our lives, that possession, thing or person is what we worship.

Since the definition of worship is what we deem as worthy in our lives, discipleship follows that definition. In the church today, being a disciple of Jesus can be defined as simply as only going to church in many instances. In order to be a true disciple of anyone, there has to be an indication of priority in an individual's life. As Dr. Michael Mitchell indicated in his "The Conditions of Discipleship", self-denial, renunciation, leaving all, steadfastness, fruitfulness and love are all indications of a disciple (Mitchell, 1-2). "Being a follower of Jesus Christ was an all-consuming obsession" (Barna, 21).

Christians worship so many things in their lives today: money, relationships, sex, possessions, sports...the list could go on. This worth-ship of worldly things also is a strong indicator of who or what we are a disciple of. We learn from everything that influences us, whether we realize it or not. Being a disciple of Jesus Christ is NOT an easy thing to do. It takes a constant pursuit of the One who saved our souls and gave up His life for us. It DOES take sacrifice. I love what King David said in 1 Chron 21:24,
"No, I insist on paying the full price. I will not take for the LORD what is yours, or sacrifice a burnt offering that costs me nothing ." NIV A sacrifice was required to save us...a sacrifice is required to be a true disciple. I have a poster in my youth room that my students constantly see that states, "Dying for us was the most He could do. Living for Him is the least we can do." I believe that with all my heart. I'm not always the best at it, but it is what I strive for.

Christian Education...

Christian education must be centered around the person of Jesus Christ and the application of his teaching and life to the disciple. Christian education must have three people involved in the process: the Lord, the leader and the learner. The leader and the learner are a requirement of education and the Lord is a requirment for the Christian. We truly must learn more about our God. We can have a general knowledge of God through His creation (Romans 1), but in order to worship Him for who He truly is, we must learn of Him. This "education" must be centered around Christ.

In order for eduction to be productive, there must be a way of evaluating the learning process and the product that is being produced as a result of that education. We don't always like to do that in the church, but if our goal is to produce mature, worshipping believers in the Savior, we must be able to evaluate the process. The process is simply stated in our class notes: "Christian educaiton is...Christ-centered, Bible-based, life/expeience focused, family-oriented and others-related." This process also provides us with a way of evaluation.

Let's take a different look at Christian education (while we're here). The first thing that comes to the minds of most people when speaking of "Chrsitian Educaiton" is either a Christian school or Sunday School within the church. While these are both VERY valid forms of Christian education that can fully entail the "people, purposes, products and process" (class notes) that are required, the truest, most effective form of Christian education occurs in the home. This can impact the "who" that we focus on (especially for those of us that are in youth ministry).

Deut 6:6-9 states:
7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 8 Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 9 Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.
NIV

We must help the family as a unit realize what God is saying here. We must EDUCATE our people on how to do the above. This is the education of discipleship.

We have problems in the church with our processes. We have problems with our purposes. Yes, we have problems with the product we produce from time to time. However, Christian education loses its focus when we forget the people. We MUST realize that our lives are about Christ...not just parts. EVERYONE involved in this process must be convinced of that. When we focus on the program (purposes, products and processes) and forget the people, it is so easy to lose the people.

Faith and Practice...

Experiences in life are the best educator when it comes to one's walk with God. I have taught junior high and high school students for around 10 years now, and the biggest learning opportunities have been when they put their faith into practice. Head knowledge can be gained in the "classroom" or as a person studies the Bible. Where a person puts their head knowledge into practice is when that knowledge becomes true wisdom. The Apostle Paul uses the illustration of the training athlete in order to speak of the Christian life. When an athlete is training, knowledge is a definite need. He/she needs a teacher that is able to communicate what will have to happen in order for the athlete to be successful. However, knowledge alone will not bring that athlete success. That knowledge must be applied to the training, the experience, in order for there to be life-change and success in the athletic endeavor. I truly believe that is part of what Paul is getting at. We cannot rely just upon knowledge without the ability to apply that knowledge to various situations in our lives. It is not knowledge that saves us...it is the belief in who Christ is, what He did for us on the cross and accepting what He did in our place. Belief itself is NOT just knowledge. When we truly believe something, our lives change. That equates to knowledge and experience. Christ said that people would know that we are his disciples by how we love each other. That is an experience that we have with each other. Experience can also teach us more about God. We must put our faith into practice.

Being an Example...

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Paul makes a huge statement in Phil 4:9...whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me...put it into practice. Paul tells the Philippians to look at his life and do everything he does. As they follow his example, they will learn to follow Christ in all that they do. The ministry application from this verse is tremendous. I am a youth pastor and this has impacted and will continue to impact the ministry that God has given me. I believe that Paul would hold to the adage that a teacher cannot expect to take his pupils where he has not already been. The life of the teacher/pastor must be an example. However, this does not imply perfection...in fact, I believe it is far from it. Paul even stated in Romans that he found that the things that he should be doing were the things that he didn't do...and the things that he shouldn't be doing were the very things that he found himself doing! I wouldn't say that Paul was constantly living a life of sin, but he also wasn't perfect and he would be the first one to tell others that! I think that when Paul speaks of being an example to his pupils, he speaks of being a good and sometimes a bad example. Paul had to be real with the people that God entrusted to him. He recognized his weakness and had others around him. Paul's attitude was that of a man that sought to follow Christ in all that he did, but he did not present himself as perfect. When a pastor/leader presents himself as "above" his people, he loses almost all ability to impact anyone. Nobody can relate to a perfect person that everyone knows is imperfect. Realness is of utmost importance when ministering to real people.

Ministry Demands Proximity

The very definition of the word, "minister", requires that there be proximity between people. Dictionary.com describes the word "minister" as a descriptive noun and a verb. The minister can be a person that is a pastor or a member of the clergy and the verb form takes on the issue of proximity. One can only minister to someone if they are in their presence...in one way or another.

Mark 3:14, Acts 4:13 and I Thess. 1:5 all speak of the importance of proximity to those that you are ministering to. The reason that the disciples were able to learn so much from Jesus was because they SPENT TIME with Him. They were able to watch every aspect of Jesus' life and were then able to put those things into practice as Jesus taught. The church of Thessalonica had seen what God had done in and through Paul and the Apostles because they had spent time with the church. True ministry cannot be accomplished without personal involvement.

Churches would change if real ministry involving proximity was truly the goal. Churches would explode because the needs of the people around them would be met by the Savior of the Universe...THROUGH MEMBERS OF THE CHURCH! The problem is that we are too busy with our own lives. We don't have time for anyone else in our schedules. We don't understand what Jesus was teaching us. He met the needs of people by getting INVOLVED in their lives. He may have been involved for only a brief moment, but that moment changed that person's life forever...and constituted continued involvement! When we are willing to follow our Rabbi and become more like Him...learning what His love is all about...then we are able to truly minister. In order to make an impact in the world around us...we must GET IN THE GAME!!!

Image of God...Fallen Man

As I consider the fact that mankind is made in the image of God (as seen in the creation account in Genesis) and that we are fallen, that is, full of sin...I am drawn to what Paul had to say in Romans 7:7-25.

Sin has taken control of mankind. This is a direct result of the "first Adam" (Rom. 5:12-19). The Law was given to Israel in order to "define" what sin is and what God expects of His people. The Law did not save man, Christ did. We can recognize sin because of God's Word...we can be saved from sin because of the Son of God! We have a new nature within us (2 Cor. 5:17), however the old nature is still at work within us! Paul describes this in a bit of detail. He finds himself doing the things that he knows he should not be doing...he states that he does the things he HATES! There is nothing good in the heart of man...the heart is full of sin. The regenerate man/woman has the desire to do what is right, yet that person finds that he/she does evil in the middle of that desire. The sinful nature is strong and alive. Who is going to save us???!!! (I ask this question along with Paul.) Jesus is the ONLY answer. We have been given a second chance. We have no ability to overcome sin in ourselves...all we have is the old, sinful nature. Through Jesus Christ and because of the Holy Spirit, we have a new nature...one that allows us to overcome sin through the power and conviction of the Holy Spirit!

I am also drawn to Romans 5:12-21 where Paul speaks of how sin entered the world through Adam and justification entered through the "second Adam," Jesus. Death entered through Adam and all of mankind has no choice but to sin as a result of his sin being passed down through every generation. Justification entered the world because of Jesus' sacrifice that satisfied the holiness of our God. We are blessed to "receive God's abundant provision of grace and the gift of righteousness..." (Rom. 5:16) because of Jesus Christ!

It is of utmost importance that leaders of the church remember the nature of the people that God has placed in our care. The nature of all people is sinful.

Jer 17:9

9 The heart is deceitful above all things
and beyond cure.
Who can understand it?
NIV

We are without cure. We are a deprived and immoral people...without the cross of Christ. The Holy Spirit enters the life of the individual that accepts Christ as their Savior and that person become regenerate. However, we are BEING saved...from grace to grace. Our salvation is a process that is continual. We are all at different points in our journey and the goal of discipleship is movement toward God. We cannot expect the people in our care to go from a "1" to a "7" in the span of a week, month or year. The goal is to introduce people to Christ, educate them about who He is and what God's Word has to say (this is through personal interaction and training people how to disciple themselves) and facilitating growth at all stages of life. We cannot overemphasize the fact that we are all sinners...or the fact that we have Christ living within us. Both are equally true. We all need to become more like Jesus EVERY DAY THAT WE LIVE...and we all need help getting there...one day, one step at a time.